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   SPIRITUAL QUEST -5

[Q] Pranam Guruvar ,  It is always said that behave with love and affection with every body but  love and affection ties the heart  in worldly affairs which leads to stress and tensions . Kindly guide me to be balanced .

[A] To love every one means to be away from hatred . Not to spread hate in the society . Hate gives rise to further hate , that should be avoided. There is difference in love and lust .Greed and lust gives rise to expectations and those expectations give stress and tension .Try to understand the true significance and meaning of love . Love is the selfless service . To surrender with complete conviction is true love. Love needs adjustment and compromise . Devotion is the purest form of love. Utmost trust and faith in God is love . Without love life is like barren land , a desert where nothing blooms . Hence true love, selfless love is the gist of all life .Love gives you higher goals in your life , with love you can serve mankind , humanity to no bounds . True love knows no limits , it is spread all over the humanity and society . But lust , greed and selfish love makes you cry which is 'Moh' , attachment . Give way to selfless love rather than selfish love which is attachment and brings despair and sorrows with it . 

[Q] Naman Maharaj shri ,Can I practice Vipasana along with my enchanting of Gurumatra ? Please

guide me .

[A] Teachings of Mahatama Budha are very inspirational for the society .  They give lot of valuable guidance , do have respect and regard for it . But trying to do two practices at the same time will be difficult and can lead to confusion . Recite your Gurumantra with utmost trust and devotion , enchante it on your religious string . If you want to practice Vipasana then do it in separate time and recite Gurumantra at a separate time .   Ashirwad

[Q] Pujay Guruvar ! Im against any  kind of corruption , Lies and evil in the society .  I can not bear any thing wrong and I say it blankly on the persons' s face .  That's why I am in fights with a lot of people. Please guide me .  

[A] Your question is very peculiar and different .  One should not bear anything wrong in the society and anything wrong done on yourself .  But try to control and change your habit of saying anything rude and impolite straight on a person's face how so ever true it is .   Try to be tactful in conveying your annoyance  . Try to avoid any kind of rude and impertinent behavior with people .  Do not resolve issues by rude arguments because arguments and conflicts give rise to quarrels and fights .  Do not always act as a rebellion , Issues can be solved with mature discussions .  If thorns are spread on the road it's better to wear shoes , cover your feet as you cannot pick away all the thorns from the road . Try to be patient , peaceful and balance yourself in stressful and provoking situations . 

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